Where to Start for Personal Development

No matter how much personality is affected by many elements around us, it is actually only a feature about us. We are just a character in a movie shot around us. What the character will do or what kind of person he will be cannot be predicted from the course of the movie. It is equally possible for him to turn a corner and make us feel that we think alike with the screenwriter. Therefore, the most important thing that determines our personality and personal development is our decisions.
 
 Where to start
 
 We mentioned that the most important thing is our decisions. The decisions we make when we are caught between two things are our personality. Therefore, if we want to develop our personality, we must first change and improve our decisions. It is possible to do this by looking at life with a different motivation and aiming at it. Have a purpose. A meaningful goal that can give you the motivation to start, change and not give up. Don't want to be someone else. Ask to reach the best version of yourself. You are the material at hand, stop giving yourself other examples or comparing yourself. Lamenting will be the biggest stone in your development. It is up to you to remove that stone. Your goal should be to realize yourself, to surpass yourself. Personal development can only happen with your decisions. Be determined and take the first step.

How to Be the First Step
 
 Once you have made your decision, your behavior should be different from what you used to be. A person who has made a decision to change and a person who continues to stand still should not be the same. First of all, it would be good to keep a notebook where you can record this process. You can keep a diary or just make a schedule. How you write is up to you. Identify the features you want to change and focus on them. Especially in these matters, you can see the slightest path you will take as success. Be aware of your shortcomings in these issues and work on them. Always keep it in mind in your daily life. Constantly remind yourself that you are now someone who is trying to change. Remember, only you provide your own personal development. How fast or slow the process will be depends on you here.
 
 Choosing the Right Activity
 
 Do not forget to do activities that will contribute to your personal development during this process. Yoga and motivation can be quite effective. But you can also do some activities according to the features you see missing in yourself. If you feel deficient in speaking, you can take a diction course. In this way, engage in behaviors that contribute to yourself.